Debra Messing's Stylish Secrets: Her Teen Son Is Her Fashion Critic

Richard April 18, 2025

Ever wondered why Debra Messing always looks so sharp on the red carpet? Well, it turns out she doesn't need a fancy stylist. At the Critics’ Choice Awards on January 13, the actress revealed her secret weapon: her 14-year-old son, Roman Zelman. He's not just any critic—he’s brutally honest, and that’s exactly what Debra loves about him. Imagine having someone in your life who will tell you straight up if your outfit is a hit or a miss. That’s Roman for you.

Roman Zelman: The Teen Who Calls It Like It Is

Debra Messing, the star of Will & Grace, shared that her teenage son doesn't hold back when it comes to her fashion choices. “He has very strong opinions about what I’m wearing,” Debra, now 50, explained. Picture this: Debra tries on an outfit, and Roman simply says, “I like that.” But when she tries on another, he doesn’t hesitate to say, “Nope.” That’s the kind of honesty every parent dreams of, right? Roman doesn’t sugarcoat it, and that’s what makes him such a reliable critic.

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Does Debra Listen to Her Son's Fashion Advice?

Now, here’s the million-dollar question: does Debra actually take her son’s advice? Well, judging by her stunning red carpet appearances, it seems like she does. “You know what? 99 percent of the time, he’s right,” Debra admitted. So, Roman has a pretty good eye for fashion. But like any mom, Debra doesn’t always follow his advice. Sometimes, she’ll look back at photos of outfits that didn’t quite work and say to herself, “I should have listened to him.” Sound familiar, parents?

The Secret to Debra's Great Figure

Debra’s not just got style; she’s also got a figure that turns heads. When asked about her workout routine, Debra revealed her secret: simplicity. She eats “super, super, super plain,” avoiding all the trendy diets and sticking to a clean, straightforward approach. “No meat, no gluten, no grains, no alcohol, no coffee, no sugar,” she listed. It’s a diet that might sound restrictive, but for Debra, it works. And let’s be honest, the results speak for themselves.

How does Debra stick to such a strict diet? She explained that it’s all about having a plan. “It also helps with my energy through awards season. It’s so relentless, so non-stop, that I have to really be vigilant in order to be able to enjoy every minute of it,” she said.

Debra's Wisdom After Years in the Spotlight

After years in the entertainment industry, Debra has learned a thing or two about self-care and confidence. “I’m much, much more gentle with myself, and I think that I have a clarity about what is really important,” she reflected. “I think I listen to my own voice in a way that I didn’t when I was younger. I wish I had.” It’s clear that Debra values her experiences and has grown from them, becoming a more self-assured and grounded person.