Tom Arnold Opens Up About His Split From Wife Ashley Groussman

Richard April 17, 2025

It’s the end of an era, folks. Tom Arnold and his fourth wife, Ashley Groussman, have officially called it quits after nearly a decade of marriage. The 59-year-old comedian confirmed the news to Radar Online on January 21 and later elaborated in an interview with Us Weekly during the premiere of his latest flick, Dead Ant. He revealed that the separation was "a long time coming," hinting at some deep-rooted issues in their relationship.

Tom Arnold Reflects on the End of His Marriage

Speaking candidly, Tom shared his thoughts on the split, saying, "It’s been a long time coming. We've been together for almost 11 years, and I'm incredibly grateful for the years we've had. My wife and I created beautiful children together, and for that, I'll always cherish her." He also mentioned that Ashley recently moved out of their shared home, marking a significant turning point in their lives.

Tom went on to explain the complexities of their relationship, saying, "She has her own life to live, just like everyone else. Sometimes, in our society, we put so much pressure on ourselves, especially women. They can feel guilty about making choices that are best for them. But I’ve always told her, ‘Listen, you’ve done everything right. We’ve had an incredible journey together. There doesn’t need to be a reason for this to end, and there doesn’t need to be a bad guy.’ It’s just time for both of us to move forward."

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A Look Back at Their Love Story

Tom and Ashley’s love story began when they tied the knot over Thanksgiving weekend in 2009. The intimate ceremony took place in Maui, Hawaii, surrounded by 75 guests who witnessed the start of their beautiful journey. Their family expanded in 2013 with the arrival of their son, Jax Copeland Arnold, and in December 2015, they welcomed their daughter, Quinn Sophie Arnold. Tom often shared adorable moments from their family life on social media, including the time he gifted Quinn her first car and chauffeur for her second birthday—a gesture that showed just how much he adored his children.

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Swore I wouldn’t be one of those terrible parents who spoiled their kids but I’m 58 & life is short so I got Quinn her first car & chauffeur this week for her 2nd birthday.❤️
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Life After Ashley

Arnold admitted that the past few years in their home had been challenging, but he’s determined to keep things positive for the sake of his kids. "For the last couple of years, it’s been unusual in the house," he said. "But my kids and I have an incredible life together. I’ve been telling Ashley, ‘It’s okay. Just do what you need to do.’ So, she moved out, and we’re both moving forward with grace." This marks another chapter in Tom's life, as he previously navigated marriages with Roseanne Barr, Julie Armstrong, and Shelby Roos.

As Tom embarks on this new phase of his life, fans will surely be rooting for him and his family as they navigate the complexities of modern relationships. It’s a reminder that even in Hollywood, life isn’t always picture-perfect, but with love and understanding, anything is possible.